Think it another way…..whatever we do at any given point in time is mostly the best we could do then,under those conditions and in those circumstances. However, we may later realize that it wasn’t the BEST we could have done or what we did was not right….never mind…we didn’t hav this understanding at that time but if we ever find ourselves in the same situation, we’d hopefully not do the same mistakes again. If you try to live with such thoughts then conscience tends to bite a little less :)
It is an appeasing thought to form that what we did was the best given the situations faced. But you know what, there’s a part of us which always bites. Less, yes as you put it.
@Lubna:
There’s nothing much to elaborate really. It is just a feeling, I have made mistakes that I regret doing and hope that I’d never do again, part of being human, living with it. :)
Think it another way…..whatever we do at any given point in time is mostly the best we could do then,under those conditions and in those circumstances. However, we may later realize that it wasn’t the BEST we could have done or what we did was not right….never mind…we didn’t hav this understanding at that time but if we ever find ourselves in the same situation, we’d hopefully not do the same mistakes again. If you try to live with such thoughts then conscience tends to bite a little less :)
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please elaorate?
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@Fariha:
It is an appeasing thought to form that what we did was the best given the situations faced. But you know what, there’s a part of us which always bites. Less, yes as you put it.
@Lubna:
There’s nothing much to elaborate really. It is just a feeling, I have made mistakes that I regret doing and hope that I’d never do again, part of being human, living with it. :)
Why do you make simple things sound so complicated?? :S
Lol.
To make you spend some of those grey matter Lubz! :)
When you regret doing something… DO SOMETHING ELSE!
People generally like you…
But you are what your choices have made you, good or bad, they led you through the maze to where you stand…
so here’s another one: let remorse slow you down… or let experience add to your wisdom…
I think there shouldnt be regret ever…we have to live with it anyway….dont regret…learn and move on…
I have an example.
What if you said and mentioned bad and dispicable words againts someone you know very well’s race? lol
I made this mistake and I feel very humilliated infront of both of the people we know very well.
I need to keep thoughts to myself, but what if you just have to let it all out?
It’s just that I was mad at the way his kind of people treated me.